The stage of my life I’m right now is a turning point. It’s hard for me to not to do what I want but to do something I didn't tilt my head to. I’ve heard from many motivational speakers that “ YOU CAN CHANGE WHAT YOU DO, BUT YOU CANNOT CHANGE WHAT YOU WANT.”
This line kept me realising to do what I want, but by the end of the day i need to just accept that fact that It’s never going to happen and continue with life. This taught me to not expect a pinch from life.
Expecting too much or just even a little from life and people is not what most of us should do. Then what happens is that your expectations doesn't get recognition or doesn't get fulfilled and you need to do is to just move on and be sad and depressed.
Learn to live alone because it’s you and life in the end. Expecting from your colleagues, family or friends is going to make you more and more dependent on them and the saddest moment in life is that when you find out that you weren't meaningful enough for them. This happens because you expected some things from them, which at last failed to be succeeded.
Stop expecting because that is not going to yield you trust from them, even loved ones. I’m not trying to become a critist but just jotting down the fact that it’s your life and not theirs. It’s your problem not theirs. There are very less percentage of people who say that “Chains on you are chains on me.” And even if there are, they fail to be the person of their words and the ones who execute it and mean it truly are the jewels in your life.
ONLY WAY TO STOP EXPECTING IS TO START DOING because hardwork is all that matters. Do not expect a kingdom of yours in dreams but instead start building your empire today.
“EXPECT THE WORST TO GET THE BEST.” This is surely my saying. This line will be understood by those who have been through things. Expect from yourself to lead in life and amongst everything because that will make you powerful.
“LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO EXPECT BUT LONG ENOUGH TO WORK.”
This is a blog of my current situation, clap if it’s yours too and sorry if it’s too long.