“IS DECIDING TOO HARD ?”

Vedanti Shukla
2 min readApr 11, 2022

It obviously is. One of the most difficult moments in life is to make decision. There will be many with us and many not, but dealing with those who are not in favour is difficult but, its more difficult when it is one of your own’s at odds with you.

Sometimes taking a decision for us becomes too hard especially when it is a choice between where you want to be, and where you should be. But really we don't care about ourselves in the process and that's the problem. We don't care about our feelings or, do not give encouragement to our thoughts or do not put ourselves first where we should. This is where we all are making mistakes.

Whatever decision you take, put yourself first in it. Inspite of thinking that there will be many distasteful of it.

Another hardest and back-breaking decision is what to listen to, your heart or, your mind. Mind is deep but heart is soft. This softness takes the edge off our our mind, which makes us unthinkable and out of the question.

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To get out of this deep water, one should consider what the situation is. When the situation is professional, one takes decision with their mind and when situation is personal then with their heart but when its both , one should listen to their conscience(inner sense of right or wrong).

One should isolate themselves, take time and keep re-thinking upon their decision. Even though, you will not come up with the choice, they will somehow get their head straight. Consider the pros and cons of it and whichever pros boon you or is friendly to you, should be considered.

Maybe there's more money or riches there but one should know what their passion follows and remember,

“MONEY COMES WITHIN PASSION,

PASSION DOES NOT COME WITHIN MONEY”

This is valid. A person passionate about something will earn good money. And,

“GOOD DECISIONS COMES FROM BAD DECISIONS”

This is because experience comes within bad decisions and also that it teaches you a lot of things. So, don't be afraid that you'll make a bad decision because, you will make some good learning out of it. Now you must have got an idea on, is making a decision hard.

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Vedanti Shukla

Cheerful Writer, Explorer and Learning to make lives happier in creative way !!